How far would you go ?

My friend tell me about his life, so difficult .. so hard .. and of course not an easy life. He ask me how come in the earth that live so many people , he is the one that have to suffer. Why me ? Why my family ? Why my job ?

I'm trying to help him , so i ask him one question. What is your vision in this world ? He Answered, " I want to have a good job , married one day , have a kids and give something special for my parents .. i want they to be happy and proud of me ".

"It's that all ?" , i asked him again. "Yes, is not not enough ? " , He asked back.
"Would you die to make that things happen ? ", i give him one question again.

He just quiet. Can't answer. I saw he is thinking about my question.
"Would you die to make that things happen ? ", i repeated my question again.

"I never thought before. I don't know.", My friend answered.
"You see, if you don't have something to do in your life that cost all of your life, you will give up to continues your life. But if you have that vision for your life, even there are so many difficulties , you wouldn't stop, you can't stop . You will go to that vision and overcome that barrier."